The Simple-30-Minute “Subconscious Release” Coaching That Helps You Break Negative Relationship Cycles To Feel the Love You Deeply Desire.
IMPORTANT LETTER FOR YOU
Dear Reader,
Do you experience the same relationship issues over and over again?
Situations that make you feel angry, hurt and stressed out.
Leaving you heartbroken and disappointed with a sense of “I am just not good enough to experience love.”
The way you feel is the way millions of people feel every day.
But this can be changed and it’s very simple.
Stay with me for a second and I will show you how it’s done. Just know that you can have the change you want in your love life.
But before any change can happen we have to understand where our problems come from.
Keep reading. I’m certain it will surprise you...
All Relationship Issues Come From Experiences You Made In Your Childhood.
During your first 7 years of life your brain is highly malleable.
The experiences you make in that time form your core beliefs about yourself and the world. Those beliefs influence all interactions with your co-workers, friends and romantic partners.
This goes for positive and negative experiences.
So, if as a child your survival was at risk, you built beliefs that would ensure your survival. As you mature and grow older, many survival based beliefs get outdated.
But you still react to them because your brain thinks it is reliving your childhood experience. Your reaction to those beliefs is called “trauma response.”
That’s why some people anticipate the worst outcome when their significant other is not replying within two hours.
Most beliefs about romantic relationships are formed while interacting with our parents.
For Example: When you constantly feel like you are not good enough for your partner, it might originate from not meeting your parents expectations.
But before you go off on your parents, consider this:
Your Parents Did not Know Better
The moment your parents started shouting or gave you the silent treatment they reacted to their trauma.
Probably right now, they still don’t know any better.
And, going off on them won’t change anything. The only thing you can do is to heal trauma within and let go of your own limiting beliefs.
How do you heal and let go of the limiting beliefs that plague your relationships?
You Have To Go Where Your Trauma Originates From
To heal yourself, you must heal the child within. Reconnect with the You that lived through the traumatic events.
The problem, most traumatic experiences we already forgot. What’s left is your belief and emotional reaction.
Work with your inner child requires the awareness of what happened to you.
Bringing them into your awareness requires you to follow 3 simple steps:
#1
Think back at a situation that made you feel angry, anxious or stressed out.
Most times, you feel a physical sensation in your body. Place one of your hands on the spot where you feel the emotion. Then close your eyes.
#2
Ask why you feel the way you feel.(The answers are always a surprise)
Thoughts like “I don’t feel like I’m good enough” might come up and it can be that you cry. It’s totally normal.
#3
Then, you ask yourself “When was the first time I experienced this.”
Immediately a memory from the past pops up. Some memories will seem ridiculous. Like “I had a B+ but my parents were unsatisfied”.
Judging or labeling these memories will make things only worse. Because remember, anything perceived as a threat to the child's survival will traumatize the child.
As important as these steps are, becoming aware of trauma is only half the battle.
I help clients to work through these traumatic experiences to open up and receive love. And I will show you exactly how in a minute.
But before that, let me introduce myself:
My Name is Hootan Ziary and I'm a Texas-Based Love Coach.
I help people to reconnect with their inner child on a deep level to let go of trauma and open up for love.
Together we heal the trauma and let go of beliefs that make relationships harder than they should be.
Giving my clients the opportunity to receive love free from fear and anxiety. And with my help dating becomes what it should be, a joyful experience.
I have worked with men and women. People with immigrant backgrounds and natives. Young and Old.
All had a powerful transformation from within after working with me once.
Here is one of many Testimonials:
“My session with Hootan was amazing. He really supported me with finding the limiting belief that has been making me feel stuck. And supported me through a very emotional release that left me feeling lighter, more confident, and ready to take on the world. He is amazing at what he does and I really felt supported. Thank you so much!”
I can help clients make profound shifts in no time because...